Online Divorce Coaching in Asbury Park NJ

1:1 Individual Coaching Packages

Divorce is one of the most destabilizing life events. According to various studies, divorce is the SECOND most stressful experience that any adult will experience in a lifetime – followed only by the death of a loved one.

Divorce overwhelms everything. Emotions intensify. Change is everywhere. The fear of the unknown prevails. Decision making affects the legal process, property and assets, parenting issues. Managing your emotional journey through divorce will have the greatest impact on the legal and financial outcome of your divorce.

As a person impacted by divorce, you may feel alone… but you are certainly not. It is estimated that 50% of marriages end in divorce.

It is possible to experience a divorce by not only surviving, but also thriving.

I can help you gain the clarity, confidence and courage to move forward in your journey.

Divorce Is Difficult.
You Are Here Because:

  • You are confused

  • You are overwhelmed

  • You are paralyzed by fear

  • You can’t get past your anger

  • You are struggling with parenting

  • You are not making good decisions

  • Your self-esteem is at an all-time low

  • You are overcome with grief and loss

  • You have no idea what you are going to do once this divorce is over

Every Day Is Different.
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You need help with~

  • Coping skills

  • Problem solving

  • Avoiding mistakes

  • Creating boundaries

  • Developing resilience

  • Harnessing your emotions

  • Communicating assertively

  • Dealing more effectively with conflict

  • Sharing your thoughts and feeling with someone who “gets it”

1:1 Individual Coaching Packages

How Would You Feel If:

  • You rediscovered your Best Self and were aligned with making the best possible decisions for your future based on your interests, needs and passion.

  • You had a supportive thinking partner, sounding board and empathetic listener to walk the path with you.

  • You developed a self-awareness that guided you in redefining you place and space
    in the world.

  • You blossomed into the next chapter of your life feeling confident, strong and empowered.

  • You knew that this next chapter could be one of the best of your life.

By working together, all of this is possible!

3-Month 1:1 Individual Coaching Package:

Nine-60 minute sessions, support and enrichment materials, ongoing access to private Facebook group.

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6-Month 1:1 Individual Coaching Package:

Eighteen-60 minute sessions, support and enrichment materials, ongoing access to private Facebook group.

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Things I Help
Clients With:

I feel like my world is falling apart. How can I put it back together?

  • There are so many things to think about. How can I make these big decisions?

  • I am all over the place. What can I do to feel less overwhelmed?

  • I'm so confused. Should I even get divorced? What's the best way to do it?

  • I'm not sure who can best help me. How do I choose a lawyer? What other professionals might I need to get me through this?

  • It feels like there is so much to do. How can I best prepare for all of this?

  • My ex is giving me a hard time. What is the best way to communicate and negotiate with my spouse?

  • I'm worried about my children. What will be best for them? How can I help them through this?

  • My emotions are all over the place. How can I handle all of these feelings?

  • Everybody has their own advice and opinions about MY situation. Who can I trust?

  • I'm really scared. What will my future look like? What goals do I want to create for myself?

"The best way out is always through." – Robert Frost

More Information:

The overwhelming nature of divorce can challenge your cognitive abilities. You must be clear on your desired outcome. The decisions you make during this time will affect the rest of your life. I help you help yourself. As your coach, I provide guidance as you sort through your thoughts and emotions, help you utilize your problem solving and decision making skills and prepare you mentally for the roller coaster of divorce.

As your divorce coach, I’m your thinking partner, your sounding board and will give you non-judgmental guidance.

We talk about your current situation and identify what your biggest concerns are right now.

We look at what obstacles you are facing, what challenges you anticipate and we will consider all of your options.

We sort through your emotions and process them so you are able to make the best possible decisions for your future.

We walk down the path together taking small steps and setting manageable goals, so the process doesn’t feel so overwhelming. With increased clarity and focus, you will be able to move forward with more confidence and courage. Our work together is done within an understanding and patient environment that nurtures you as an individual and fosters feelings of safety and support.

“Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through divorce to help them make the best possible decisions for their future, based on their particular interests, needs, and concerns."

– The American Bar Association

What People Are Saying:

  • "Kimberly is an excellent counselor. She is smart, empathetic, and gets right into solutions and positive processes that enable growth necessary for self-empowerment. Her support and partnership in helping me identify approaches that will benefit my long-term success are invaluable. Her communication style is excellent – the methodology she uses to present scenarios helps to shift perspective, thus increasing my ability to be proactive instead of overwhelmed by issues. I highly recommend Kimberly."

    ★★★★★

    — 48 year old female from Bergen County, NJ.

  • "Kim has been a huge help to me with my children and has provided both practical and emotional support through some very difficult times. Kim is very supportive and non-judgmental and makes you feel comfortable. She is well liked and well respected in the community. She is the first to volunteer and always lends a helping hand. As a fellow divorced, single mom, she understands the challenges I am facing. She is caring, calming and trustworthy. She has a way of helping me see things in a different light and realizing what is important and what I need to really just let go of."

    ★★★★★

    — 48 year old female from Passaic County, NJ.

  • Kim has been so amazing to work with, relatable, kind, and incredibly helpful in finding different solutions or ways to deal with problems/stress, etc. I especially love her recommendation that when overwhelmed to break things into little chunks and deal with them bit by bit, I use that strategy often now!

    ★★★★★

    — 37 year old female from Monmouth County, NJ.

  • This divorce recovery group was exactly what I needed. I learned so much about myself, as well as learned tools to get through tough emotions and tough times. Kimberly is such a fabulous leader with her excellent communication skills as well as her expert understanding of all the little things that one might come up against while moving through a divorce. I highly recommend this group format if you are moving through a divorce.

    ★★★★★

    – 51 year old male from our Group Support Program

  • I had hit a point in my divorce process where I was truly struggling to acknowledge what I was going through... mostly because I felt alone and didn’t know how to cope with my thoughts and feelings. Not only did Kim as the facilitator push me to acknowledge and name those feelings, but to also start my journey of healing from the trauma my divorce has caused. I feel like the group discussions (wonderful that they were kept small!) and the handouts have been truly beneficial for me. The way Kim tailored the discussion topics to the group's needs was extremely helpful. She was open to feedback and suggestions on what the group wanted and needed to learn about which was fantastic. Above all, Kim was kind to each and every member which meant a lot to me.

    ★★★★★

    — Group Member Fall 2022

  • I still have healing to do on this ~Divorce Rollercoaster~ (take the course and you’ll understand the terminology!) but I feel participating in this Divorce Support Group with Kim at the helm has allowed me to not only start the process and make some progress, but also set me up with the resources to continue forward! Thank you for your kindness and help in this difficult part of my life Kim and Blossom Coaching. I would most certainly recommend anyone else struggling through the divorce process to participate in the Support Group, you will not regret it!

    ★★★★★

    — Group Member Fall 2022